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Julien Blanc has given the pickup artist community a bad name. Most of us do not advocate the sort of behaviour seen in his videos this last week.
But, whether it’s right or wrong, we live in a society where it is mostly down to men to take the lead when it comes to courting.
Without the ability to meet a woman, a man misses out on a huge part of life that many people take for granted.
In the pickup community we categorise guys as ‘naturals’ if they are able to meet and court women easily. Often they have grown up surrounded by certain influences so that they have just absorbed the behavioural traits to be able to do so.
Those that don’t take to talking to women as easily are simply those that didn’t have those sort of influences in their life growing up.
Would it be fair for those that have not naturally learnt how to speak to and seduce women to never possess the ability to meet the person they want to meet?
Yes, the pickup community uses methods that could be described as manipulation, but this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. We are all manipulated every day by our surroundings, but of course with an understanding of how manipulation works comes great responsibility.
The pickup community has helped thousands of men worldwide find love and happiness in relationships.
Millions of men around the world suffer from depression, feel inadequate or have never learnt where to start with women.
I personally have travelled around the world teaching my material to a good part of them. My students have lost their virginity, found girlfriends, got married and have had children.
I do not brand myself as a pickup artist but I definitely did come from that community.
PUA techniques can not only enhance dating lives but can give men an inner confidence that may have otherwise been lacking.